This week, May 14-20, is Dying Matters Awareness Week.

This is a week in which people throughout the UK are encouraged to talk openly about dying, death and bereavement.

It is organised by the Dying Matters Coalition, a national coalition of more than 15,000 members that is working to change public knowledge, attitudes and behaviours towards death, dying and bereavement.

Mike Ashbridge, the local humanist funeral celebrant, is a member and keen supporter of the campaign.

He said: "In our society, there is very much a taboo around talking about death. Very few people have spoken about the medical care they would like to receive as their death approaches. Furthermore, only around a third of us have told anyone about the funeral arrangements we would like to have after we die and nearly two-thirds of us have not written a will. This lack of information can not only affect how you are cared for during your final days of life, but can also cause great distress to your bereaved family.

"Talking about death doesn't bring death closer. It's about planning for life. Without communication and understanding, death and terminal illness can be a lonely and stressful experience, both for the person who is dying and for their friends and family.

"During the week, I'd encourage people to take the simple steps that can make a big difference when they are dying or bereaved. Take this opportunity to share your wishes with someone close to you, maybe register to become an organ donor, write a will or consider taking out a funeral plan."

More information and helpful guidance can be found on the Dying Matters website http://www.dyingmatters.org">www.dyingmatters.org or if you would like a copy of a straightforward factsheet about things to think about when planning your own funeral, contact Mike on 07810 305542 or email him at [email protected]">[email protected]